INTRODUCTION TO DALE CARNEGIE
Dale Carnegie was an American writer and lecturer, He was born on November 24, 1888, and died on November 1, 1955. Dale Carnegie was the second son of his family.
He married twice two different women. The first woman he married was lolita Beaucaire in 1927 and subsequently got divorced in 1931.
Thereafter he again for the second time got married to a woman named Dorothy prince in the year 1944. Although he also got a kid named Donna Dale Carnegie.
BOOKS BY DALE CARNEGIE
(1) 1915; ART OF PUBLIC SPEAKING, WITH JOSEPH BERG ESENWEIN.
(2) 1920; PUBLIC SPEAKING.
(3) 1932; LINCOLN THE UNKNOWN.
(4) 1934; LITTLE KNOWN FACTS ABOUT WELL KNOWN PEOPLE.
(5) 1937; FIVE MINUTES BIOGRAPHIES.
(6) 1948; HOW TO STOP WORRYING AND START LIVING.
HOW TO STOP WORRYING AND START LIVING
STORY OF THE WORRIED ENGINEER
There was an engineer, who was given to install new devices which could blow away poisonous and malodorous gases .hence he commenced his preparation for the project.
Although he already knew that it was a humongous project and was going to demand all his efforts. so as he did, and completely inclined himself towards the task.
But unfortunately, something went wrong and as result, it did not perform properly when was being used. thereby it could not be used in henceforth days.
Hence he got badly insulted and even fired by his boss and now he alone had to incur the entire loss. The company was witnessing…
ENTERED INTO DEPRESSION
This young man was in huge affliction thereafter fell into depression. he was too depressed that he could not even sleep for days and would all the time think about his failure.
Turmoil had entered his life and his life for him was just like a green leaf which turned into a withered due to excessive heat after it was snatched from the twig.
Although he knew that there must be a solution but he was constantly striving to reach there.
Because it was a part of a huge project he was constantly being threatened by his boss. And was also being reminded that he owed him that loss, company was going to incur.
THE TURNING POINT
Finally, as a brave warrior, he decides to handle the situation using creativity as his auxiliary tool.
He pondered for a while to find the perfect solution which could assist him to get rid of the calamity and ended up having a golden rule of three techniques…
(1) WHAT IS THE WORST THING THAT CAN HAPPEN TO ME.
(3) HOW CAN I FIX THE BLUNDER, WHICH HAS ALREADY TAKEN PLACE.
He thereafter starts thinking about the worst situation, he could be in due to his karma. He realizes that he only would have to just incur the entire loss if he is found guilty subsequently.
Whereas neither anybody was going to harm him nor he was going to be confined. despite he had all the time to think and solve the problem calmly.
Thereafter something unexpected happened ”he started feeling rather relaxed now ”
Now it was time to fix the blunder he did .he after long research on that issue, finds that only a small investment of 5000 could fix the issue from its root.
He readily implemented the action and not only incurred the entire loss but also earned a lot of money from the same firm.
RESULTS CAME OUT IN A SURVEY
In a survey, it has been carried out that fear, worry, hatred, selfishness etc..are the primary reason behind the origin of dicey diseases like heart attack, anxiety, depression…
STORY OF A PATIENT
There was a guy who suffered from a very dicey disease ad was even declared by all the doctors he visited that he could die any day within a month.
Although he was the kind of guy who was very fond of travelling. And thereby always wanted to go for a world tour. So he left and carried a coffin with himself in case if he dies in the midst of the tour.
Hence he endows it to one of the staff member saying that if any tragedy takes place and he dies then he must put him inside the coffin and throw it into the sea.
Thereafter this guy during the world tour enjoys immensely.
Although he was already very mischievous and naughty by temperament. hence he did too much loitering with his colleagues or rather stolen bonus fun than others present there.
As a result, when he returns to the city, He had gained 90 extra pounds and yet was alive.
He proved all the doctors wrong by implementing those three techniques which the engineer applied in the last case, unintentionally.
(1) He analysed the worst case.
(2) HE embraced it overwhelmingly
(3) He ascertained that it was beyond anyone’s control except god after declared by all the doctors.
Articulately that it could not be cured, So he bravely decided to do what he always wanted.
IN A NUTSHELL, A SURVEY SAYS THAT…
(1) 85% of the worries we do, do not even take place…
(2) 79% of the remained 15% gets eliminated voluntarily…
(3) Thereby 97% of the worries we feed in our mind does nothing but gnaws our life consistently and dooms the creativity we possess within ourselves…
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